About a friend!

I met him in the summer of last august! I seriously do not remember how we have started talking with each other. I mean, you know, that particular scene where I actually started talking with this guy… nope I do not remember that much! What I remember is that till the November 2010, he became my very good and close friend like Priya, Arti, Aishwarya!

Since long time, he was asking me to write something on Kashmir; he allows me to write anything what I feel about Kashmir, he even suggested me to write something on Human interest. But I said ‘no’ because I was illiterate about entire conflict. (Here ‘illiterate’ means not that I am not aware about Kashmir but it was like I was pretty much away from the facts about Kashmir!)

So I was talking about a guy I met in the last August! Well I used to notice him along with Priya Gaikwad. But from the very first day my intentions were clear that he is good looking guy who knows that he looks good! So my approach towards him was like a friend! Earlier he was like a person who does not bother about professor, lectures, and assignments and trust me, he doesn’t! But I was seriously surprised when I came to know he is not a guy with blind faith in Indian government! And then what was my reaction? Was I frustrated? Did I start hating him? No! I don’t. There was the moment when I seriously furious on him! A big conversation where me and Aishwarya were actually having debates with him! And he was just enjoying it! I wrote a big note for him and posted it on facebook, he read it and many people commented on it, (few days back I deleted that post! lolz) but then again on next day, all is well! We started talking.

My school teacher once told me, “When you say to him or her ‘you are my friend’, you should accept him or her the way he or she is!” Soon I started following it with his case also! And I came to know what he is! Interestingly, few days back I came across with his unique identity, that this man is lot more occupied with the social life! And I do not find it absolutely good! He thinks about his land, wants to work for his land; and may be insecure about his life in Kashmir due to all kinds of militants! He wants to become a part of social life of Kashmir; he wants to become influential! He wants to work for Human rights; he wants to explain the plight of Kashmiri citizens! He wants to jump into that ocean where several other influential creatures are already playing with power and emotions! Good! He is ambitious like me! But I am worried that his ocean is different than mine! His ocean is more dangerous, violent and more than that the ocean is unpredictable! And you know generally…in these oceans, it is very difficult to understand what is wrong or right! You just keep on chasing pavements, sometimes they lead somewhere or sometimes they don’t! And if they do not lead somewhere, then definitely he should know how to find a different way or how to turn back!

Interestingly this guy denies the love and affection from a site of a girl who may love him most! I don’t know what is in his mind? Or may be I know? But still nothing is in hands of anyone! What I can wish that he will stay in touch! Otherwise if Indian government blocks the facebook or phone lines to Kashmir, then I don’t know where should I find him? Lolz. Apart from his sad Love-life, he is seriously a very lovely friend!

P.S. I do accept his thoughts and views, though I do not agree with them. I became liberal to accept his views. Still this fellow calls me ‘Commi’ !